The Rahmly library

Guides for Muslim parents

Warm, practical and honest about their sources. Qur’an and hadith are referenced with their grades; everything else is clearly labelled Parenting Wisdom.

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3–6Muslim Families in Muslim-minority Countries

Christmas at School: A Guide for Muslim Parents

Nativity plays, Christmas parties, cards and Secret Santa: the scholarly views, options to discuss with school, and how to talk to your child.

8 min read
All agesParent Wellbeing, Marriage & Family

Co-Parenting After Divorce: An Islamic Approach

Keep children out of the conflict: speaking well of the other parent, keeping faith routines in two homes, and putting the child first.

5 min read
All agesEmotions, Discipline & Gentle Parenting

Gentle Parenting in Islam: Is It Sunnah?

What gentle parenting means, where it matches the sunnah of rifq (gentleness), where Islam adds firm limits, and how to do both.

8 min read
3–6Emotions, Discipline & Gentle Parenting

How to Explain Death to a Child in Islam

Gentle, honest words for when someone dies: what to say at each age, what Islam teaches about the soul and Jannah, and how to grieve together.

7 min read
Pregnancy & newbornPregnancy & Newborn

Nifas Explained: The Postpartum Period in Islam

What nifas is, how prayer and fasting work after birth, when it ends, and how families can truly support a new mother through the first 40 days.

7 min read
All agesMuslim Families in Muslim-minority Countries

Raising Muslim Kids in the West: A Practical Guide

Identity, community, school, holidays, friendships and pride: a practical guide for Muslim parents in the UK, US, Canada, Europe and Australia.

10 min read
3–6Ramadan, Eid & the Islamic Calendar

Ramadan Activities for Kids: 30 Ideas by Age

Thirty low-prep Ramadan activities for toddlers to tweens: good-deed calendars, Qur'an goals, iftar helpers, giving and crafts, sorted by age.

9 min read
7–9Ramadan, Eid & the Islamic Calendar

Ramadan at School: A Guide for Muslim Parents

Talking to teachers, PE and lunchtime, exams, prayer at school, letters you can send, and helping your child feel proud, not awkward.

5 min read